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An exclusive arrangement is available for one with whom I have a long-standing and enthusiastic connection. Is that you?
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I'm Downtown Vancouver, Washington based and often travel between Portland, Seattle, Vancouver B.C., and other major cities in the USA such as New York City and Los Angeles. I'm always interested in discussing train-me-to-you's (TMTYs) in the Pacific Northwest and fly-me-to-you's (FMTYs) globally.
Last-minute bookings are extremely rare and often reserved for spontaneous novel experiences and well-established friends. Please try to book ahead whenever possible.
I don't maintain a fixed schedule. My calendar is based almost entirely around yours. My full calendar is offered exclusively to those who have sparked a connection with me.
Denver ~ Downtown ~ May 27-29 ~ Duos available. Early arrival available.
New York ~ Midtown ~ May 29 to June 2 ~ Duos available. Extension available.
Seattle ~ Downtown ~ June 25-29 ~ Duos available.
Los Angeles ~ Downtown ~ Jul 30 to Aug 2 ~ Extension available.
Make plans with me for my next birthday? (October)
Accepting bookings and tour sponsorships for 2026 and 2027
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Of Note:
Same day bookings - please add $200
Couples - please add 50%
Duos - please rate match to the highest rate, except in special circumstances
Bookings that begin before 7am and after 10pm - please add $100 per hour
3+ hour dates spent entirely inside - please add $100 per hour
Kink, BDSM, Filming, and Special Requests - rate upon inquiry
Vancouver, WA and Portland Metro:
My discreet incall is an inviting, relaxing, and intentionally curated luxury retreat conveniently located along the I-5 corridor in Downtown Vancouver, Washington. My private space is only available to long-term lovers and friends.
New friends requesting an incall in the Portland Metro Area should add hotel costs as applicable. Outcalls may incur rideshare costs. Duos always available, contact me directly for photos!
FMTY:
"Fly me to you", anywhere in the world! Please be sure to cover flight, rideshares, food, activities, stay, and any other associated costs.
TMTY:
"Train me to you", anywhere in the Pacific Northwest! Please be sure to cover train, rideshares, food, activities, stay, and any other associated costs.
Touring:
Incalls are always available at no extra charge. Outcalls may incur rideshare costs. Please book ahead whenever possible.
Rates may vary based on city/region, as well as your requests and vibes.
Investment
24 hours and longer - bespoke, curated experiences tailored to you and I <3
18 hours - $3,000 USD
12 hours - $2,500 USD
6 hours - $2,000 USD
4 hours - $1,500 USD
3 hours - $1,200 USD
2 hours - $900 USD
1 hour - $600 USD
Social Time:
Let's see if we're compatible before committing to a private meeting! Meet me for a small bite, arcade time, a show, or whatever our hearts desire! Available in current city only.
1 social hour - $300 USD
30 social minutes - $200 USD
Additional social hours - $150 USD
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FAQ
New Friends: Start Here!
Heyya! :) Thanks for taking the time to learn more about what I expect from a new friend. Doing your due diligence always results in a better experience, with me or with any other model you encounter!
Please read over the full FAQ. This page is meant to be your main source of information for bookings. The FAQ is updated when needed so try to review back in case something has changed.
Always respect my listed rates but, if you have a specific activity and rate in mind that you believe is fair for your requests, I'm happy to negotiate with respectful people.
If you have any questions please reach out and ask me directly! I'm always happy to answer genuine questions or direct you to the answers you're seeking.
What is your favorite type of date?
I prefer dates that include ample bonding time and fun activities.
For new friends, I suggest a 2-6 hour date based on your availability and capacity for social interation. Great first date activities range from small bites and charcuterie, coffee and patisserie, arcades, mini golf, and shorter shows for 2-4 hour dates, to galleries, museums, spa time, shopping, multi-course meals, and omakases for 4-6 hour dates.
For established lovers, an overnight date offers plenty of time to linger. We can indulge in a mutually loved activity, a relaxed dinner, a late night soak, bed time... and morning bed time. ;) Extended multi-day dates in new destinations hold a special place in my heart. I love being whisked away for unique adventures!
However... long-term monthly and yearly arrangements are my absolute favorite. The release, the reliability, the guarantee. Unlimited freedom to explore together. Dedication with discretion; Depth without drama; Daily doses of decadence, shared. It doesn't get any better than that!
What are your weaknesses?
Scared of bees. Passenger Princess and rideshare user. Sometimes fashionably late. Hopeless romantic, endlessly daydreaming. Shopping Addict.
Discretion?
I value long-term connections and mutual respect to the highest degree, so discretion is always paramount. Any personal information you give me is used for screening and safety purposes only. Privacy and no drama. I expect the same from you. I am open to signing an NDA.
I solemnly swear I will never share your likeness or any identifying information about you anywhere or with anyone without your explicit permission.
Do you have a "menu"?
I am extremely explorative and open to all kinds of dynamics and activities... However, asking for a "menu" is an immediate turn-off. Please have tact when engaging with me. I'm happy to discuss everything openly after we have established a relationship.
Are you real?
Yes, I am real. I don't pay for and maintain a professional website, social media accounts, and premium advertising accounts to scam people out of their hard earned money. I have a reputation (and a karmic balance) to uphold! Hope this helps! If not, I do offer paid video calls and public meetings.
Etiquette
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Hygiene and grooming - An absolute must. This goes both ways.
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Intoxicants - I don't mind if you get a little loose, but please keep it classy. I don't partake in any intoxicants outside of light cannabis use when appropriate.
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Smoking - I enjoy light cannabis use as appropriate, as well as an occasional cigar with friends. I don't mind if you smoke.
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Phones - Put away, unless urgent.
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Gifts and tips - Never expected, always appreciated <3
Multi-hour, Overnight, and Extended Dates
For dates 4 hours and longer, an activity outside is required. If you would like to spend dates 4 hours or longer inside only, please add $200/hour to the investment.
For overnight and extended dates with new friends, I require my own private room for vanity and storage. A 2-room dynamic also tends to be preferred by friends who enjoy a refined experience with clear boundaries and nightly separation. For established friends wishing for blurred lines during organic and harmonious overnights with me... just ask. (;
Whether we share a room or not, please allow daily periods of privacy for vanity, exercise, personal time, and a restful beauty sleep of 6-9 hours (69.. niceee, lol).
Cash
All rates are listed in USD. For physical cash, I accept USD and the major local currency of our place of meeting. If you plan to use a non-USD physical currency please be sure to convert my rates properly, round up generously, and be ready to adjust the cash amount based on exchange rates closer to date. Consider tipping to help with exchange costs!
The investment should be transferred electronically or presented to me in cash within an envelope, card, book, gift bag, purse, or another discreet vessel within 5 minutes of meeting. Please do not wait until after dinner. If you plan to extend, please have the additional investment ready to be transferred or handed to me in cash inside of a discreet vessel once I have positively confirmed the extension.
I love it when my friends get creative with our mode of exchange. The more interesting or sentimental the vessel, the better. The more novel the experience, the better.
Some ideas to get you started:
Openable piggybanks, personalized envelopes, hollowed out books, a bouquet of dollars, in the pocket of a new coat or purse, a briefcase filled with papers and neatly stacked cash so we can pretend like we're in a crime movie, laid atop a dress, pair of shoes, or other gift inside a gift box, stashed inside of or alongside any fun trinkets, doodads, knickknacks, or whats-a-whooz-its. And, finally my favorites: retirement and investment accounts, real estate, fine metals, jewels, or wills... <3
You get the idea. Have fun with it! New friends should refrain from using vessels that will make the investment difficult to count or use. For established friends, a bit of a struggle can be fun sometimes... ;)
Screening
Screening Option 1 (Gentleman's Choice):
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Includes Screening Options 2, 3, 4, and 5! <3
Screening Option 2 (Personal Information):
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Full name
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Date of birth
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Company and Position
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Phone number
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Email
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LinkedIn (if applicable)
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Photo ID + Selfie (optional)
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Social media accounts (optional)
Screening Option 3 (References):
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2+ references from reputable models you've seen within the last 9 months whom are responsive by text or email. Please note that reviews, "vouches", and "okays" do not count as references. If you plan to use me as a reference, please let me know beforehand.
Screening Option 4 (Video Vibe Check):
An additional nonrefundable investment is required starting at $100 without live video from me, or $200 with live video from me. I reserve the right to decline an in-person meeting.
Screening Option 5 (Public Meeting):
Current touring city or Pacific Northwest cities only. Additional nonrefundable investment required, review my social rates for your city of choice. Reimbursement for applicable costs may apply.
Meeting place must be in public but should be discreet for both of us. Common activities include dining, coffee, or drinks, but I'm open to anything!
The social investment is due within 5 minutes of meeting via e-transfer or cash inside of a discreet vessel. During this time we'll chat casually, exchange stories, have fun, and just get to know each other. From there, I'll decide if I'm comfortable or interested in moving forward with you.
If I am interested in moving forward...
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and we plan to extend with a private meeting immediately, please transfer the private investment or hand it to me in cash inside of a discreet vessel once I've agreed to the extension
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and we plan to meet for a private meeting on another day, please transfer the agreed upon deposit or hand it to me in cash inside of a discreet vessel once I've agreed to the details
If I am not...
I will retain the public meeting investment and reject any additional investments or deposits. I'll gracefully excuse myself from the establishment and reach out to you with your options for moving forward. These options include:
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Attempting another public meeting. Maybe we got off on the wrong foot?
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Asking you to complete screening options 2 and/or 3. Maybe I'm feeling a bit nervous with you and need more assurance?
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Negotiating a new rate. This is mainly related to kink, bespoke meetings, and other requests that require rate negotiation. I always aim for fairness on both sides. I will never agree to a public meeting if I don't feel there's solid potential for a private meeting.
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Nothing. We may just be incompatible and, in that case, I'm sorry it didn't work out. I wish you the best of luck in your search!
How do I request a date?
I will only consider meeting with those who value my company and are respectful, discreet, and kind. I take my connections seriously, I put a lot of effort into being my best self for you, and I'm very selective about who I allow into my inner circle, thus I prefer quality over quantity.
I tend to be more impressed by a thoughtfully filled-out booking form or a well-written email but, I'll admit, a concise, to-the-point text message will get my attention quickly.
Please send a detailed introduction including your:
- name
- age
- occupation
- the city you are looking to book me in
- your requested duration with me
- incall or outcall
- a few dates/times that work for you
as well as any additional information or requests you might have, and I will take it from there!
I do not answer unscheduled phone calls. Please email or text me to schedule a phone call if that's your preferred contact method.
What are your strengths?
My biggest strength as a companion is my ability to make our time together feel completely organic and genuine. That's because, to me, our relationship is organic and genuine.
I am natural, authentic, honest to a fault, and I love to joke around and have fun. I am very ambitious and have a full life and career outside of being Alex, making me a great social companion.
I'm far from perfect, but I'm the perfect match for the right gentleman. 😘
I am outside the PNW or overseas. Are you able to visit me?
Yes, I am happy to come to you! I have a U.S. passport and I'd love to use it more often :)
Alternatively, you can visit me in Portland, Seattle, or Vancouver! Please book in advance so that I can make sure to be available for you during your visit.
Mine or yours (incall or outcall)?
Mine (Incall): I host my favorite friends in my private, luxury incall space conveniently located in Downtown Vancouver, Washington. To host new friends, I choose four or five star upscale hotels that are comfortable, discreet, tasteful, and conveniently located for you. Reimbursement for any hotel and rideshare costs may apply for new friends.
Yours (Outcall): I am happy to visit your private residence, rental, or 4-5 star hotel within metropolitan limits. I am only willing to meet well-established friends in rural areas.
Do you turn away certain types of clients?
Of course. I'm very selective about who I spend time with. I will only meet with people who are kind, respectful, tactful, and generous. I cater only to those who genuinely care about my health, comfort, and safety. I most enjoy spending time with provider, protector types and affectionate, attentive lovers.
I prefer repeating, regular encounters and will reject obvious one-offs and "gotta catch 'em all" types, especially if you don't offer some kind of unique sparkle or magic such as an adventurous activity or a trip somewhere gorgeous (see: my novel experiences fetish). This does not include travelers! I do enjoy a spontaneous tryst with visitors. <3
If you don't meet or exceed these standards, we are not compatible.
Honorable Mentions:
- "hey" "hi" "u avail?" "menu?"
- Vulgarity and explicit verbiage during initial inquiry
- Functionally illiterate (not including English as a 2nd+ language!)
- Asking for unsafe activities as a stranger (I do not know you, sir!)
- "babe" "baby" "hun" "sweetie" during initial inquiry (again, idk you!)
- Bad tippers or rude to waitstaff and other entry-level employees
- Those who make promises they do not keep
Do you offer duos or meet couples?
I absolutely love duos and couples!
If you would like me to curate a duo or trio experience for you, I would be happy to. I have some really fun friends based in Portland and Seattle, and I occasionally travel with them as well. Or, if you'd like to search for a new model, I'd be happy to do all of the research for us!
If you are looking to book a duo or trio including me and another model I don't yet know, please mention it in your initial introduction and have the other model contact me directly.
If you are a couple looking to book, please note that screening is required for both parties and it is 1.5x the normal investment. :)
Photography and Videography
I will never take photos of you or your personal residence without your explicit permission. I will never take photos of myself inside your personal residence without your explicit permission. I may take photos in or of any public/non-residential environment we are enjoying ourselves in, unless if you explicitly ask that I do not.
If you wish to take photos of me/together, I prefer to snap the photos on my device and send the approved photos to you afterwards. Please never take photos or videos of me with your device without asking me first.
Deposits and E-Transfers
I accept CashApp, Bitcoin, Ethereum, select Stablecoins, select gift cards, fan sites, gifting sites, or cash-by-mail at my discretion and terms. Other discreet methods may be considered.
Direct CC and ACH transfers may be available (and potentially deductible) for established friends. If this is something that interests you, please ask and we can explore setting up an invoicing system.
A deposit may be required. Your deposit will be applied to the full investment. Deposits are non-refundable in the case you need to cancel, but they can be applied towards a future booking within a reasonable amount of time. In the rare case that I must cancel, the deposit will be returned within 3 working days minus any rental, travel, etc. costs that may have been lost due to booking plans.
Cancellations
Last-minute cancellations are subject to a cancellation fee. Short dates (6 hours or less) cancelled within 72 hours incur a $300 cancellation fee. Longer dates (12 hours or more) cancelled within 10 days incur a $600 cancellation fee. Any cancellation fees must be collected and a 50% deposit will be required to reschedule cancelled dates.
The goal of requiring cancellation fees isn't to punish you for cancelling, it's to reduce my personal and financial risks associated with last minute cancellations and bookings. If you're sick or having a genuine emergency, please reach out and we can decide what seems fair for the situation.
Anything else?
That's all from me! I hope to hear from you soon. :)
Any fantasy scenarios contained on this site and across the internet under Alex Astor are just that. I do not engage in any illegal acts. Compensation is for time and experience curation only.