
An exclusive arrangement is available for one with whom I have a long-standing and enthusiastic connection. Is that you?
FAQ
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My schedule is flexible and subject to change. Last minute availability (within 48 hours) is reserved for established connections and particularly intriguing, adventurous, and fun-sounding dates.
MARCH
16-20: PDX
20-24: YVR
2 hour minimum. Please book ahead. Books close March 18th.
24-27: PDX
27-31: CHI
3 hour minimum. Please book ahead. Books close March 25th.
APRIL
1-4: CHI
3 hour minimum. Please book ahead. Books close March 25th.
5-9: Unavailable
9-16: PDX
16-30: PNW or FMTY
Open availability for extended dates and new friends
MAY
1-6: NYC
4 hour minimum. Please book ahead. Books close April 28th.
6-31: PNW or FMTY
Open availability for extended dates and new friends
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I'm Portland, Oregon based and often travel between Seattle, Washington; Vancouver, British Columbia; San Francisco, California; Las Vegas, Nevada; Phoenix, Arizona; Salt Lake City, Utah; and other major cities on (and off) the West Coast.
I'm always interested in discussing train-me-to-you's (TMTYs) in the Pacific Northwest and fly-me-to-you's (FMTYs) globally. I would like to spend more time in New York City, New York; Toronto, Ontario; Montreal, Quebec; Chicago, Illinois; Atlanta, Georgia; San Diego, California; Miami, Florida; and other major cities in the U.S.A. and across the globe.
I will only consider meeting with those who value my company and are respectful, discreet, and kind. I take my connections seriously, I put a lot of effort into being my best self for you, and I'm very selective about who I allow into my inner circle, thus I prefer quality over quantity.
I always appreciate a thoughtfully filled out booking form or a well written email, but I'll admit, a concise, to-the-point text message gets my attention quickly.
Please send a detailed introduction including your:
- name
- age
- occupation
- the city you are looking to book me in
- your requested duration with me
- incall or outcall
- a few dates/times that work for you
and any additional information or requests you might have, and I will take it from there!
Etiquette
Hygiene and grooming - An absolute must. This goes both ways.
Intoxicants - I don't mind if you get a little loose, but please keep it classy. I don't partake in any intoxicants besides light cannabis use when appropriate.
Smoking - I enjoy light cannabis use as appropriate, as well as an occasional cigar with friends.
Phones - Put away, unless urgent.
Gifts and tips - Never expected, always appreciated <3
Photography and Videography
I will never take photos of you or your personal residence without your explicit permission. I will never take photos of myself inside your personal residence without your explicit permission. I may take photos in or of any public/non-residential environment we are enjoying ourselves in, unless if you explicitly ask that I do not.
If you wish to take photos of me/together, I prefer to snap the photos on my device and send them to you afterwards. Please never take photos or videos of me with your device without asking me first.
I solemnly swear I will never share your likeness or any identifying information about you anywhere or with anyone without your explicit permission.
Overnights and Extended Dates
With new friends I require my own private room for vanity and storage. A 2-room dynamic tends to be preferred by friends who enjoy a refined experience with clear boundaries and nightly separation, even over the long term. For those wishing for blurred lines during organic and harmonious overnights with me... we'll just have to meet in person and see how we get along. (;
Whether we share a room or not, please allow daily periods of privacy for vanity, exercise, personal time, and a restful beauty sleep of 7-9 hours.
Cash:
The remaining balance after deposit should be presented to me in cash within an envelope, card, book, gift bag, purse, or another discreet vessel within 5 minutes of meeting. Please do not wait until after dinner.
If you plan to extend, please have the additional investment ready for me, also in cash and within a discreet vessel, to be given to me once I have positively confirmed the extension.
All rates are listed in USD. I accept USD and CAD. If you plan to use CAD please be sure to convert my rates properly, round up generously, and be ready to adjust the cash amount based on exchange rates closer to date. Consider tipping to help with exchange costs!
I love it when my friends get creative with our mode of cash exchange. The more enticing or sentimental the vessel, the better. The more novel the experience, the better.
Some ideas to get you started: piggybanks, personalized envelopes, hollowed out books, a bouquet of dollars, in the pocket of a new coat or purse, a briefcase filled with papers and neatly stacked cash so we can pretend like we're in a crime movie, laid atop a dress, pair of shoes, or other gift inside a gift box, stashed inside of or alongside any fun trinkets, doodads, knickknacks or whats-a-whooz-its. You get the idea. Have fun with it!
New friends should be mindful that I will need easy access to counting and using the cash. New friends should refrain from bringing vessels that will make the cash difficult to count or use. For established friends, a bit of a struggle can be fun sometimes... ;)
Deposits:
A deposit may be required. Your deposit will be applied to the full investment. You may handle this via CashApp, crypto, gifting sites, gift cards, fan sites, or cash-by-mail at my discretion and terms. Direct CC and ACH transfer may be available (and potentially tax deductible) for my established friends with compatible businesses, please ask. Other discreet methods may be considered.
Deposits are non-refundable in the case you need to cancel, but they can be applied towards a future booking within a reasonable amount of time. In the rare case that I must cancel, the deposit will be returned within 3 working days minus any rental, travel, etc. costs that may have been lost due to booking plans.
Cancellations:
Last-minute cancellations are subject to a cancellation fee. Short dates (6 hours or less) cancelled within 72 hours incur a $500 cancellation fee. Longer dates (12 hours or more) cancelled within 10 days incur a $1,000 cancellation fee. Any incurred cancellation fees must be collected and a 50% deposit will be required to reschedule cancelled dates.
The goal of requiring cancellation fees isn't to punish you for cancelling, it's to reduce my personal and financial risks associated with last minute cancellations and bookings. If you're sick or having a genuine emergency, please reach out and we can decide what seems fair for the situation.
Screening:
Screening Option 1 (Gentleman's Choice):
Includes Screening Options 2, 3, and 4! <3
Screening Option 2 (Personal Information):
Full name
Date of birth
Company and Position
Phone number
Email
LinkedIn (if applicable)
Photo ID + Selfie (optional)
Social media accounts (optional)
Screening Option 3 (References):
2+ references from reputable models you've seen within the last 9 months whom are responsive by text or email. If you plan to use me as a reference, please let me know beforehand.
Screening Option 4 (Public Meeting):
Current city or surrounding cities only. Additional investment required, review my social rates. Ride share costs may apply. Meeting place must be in public, but should be discreet for both of us. Common activities include quick bites, dinner, coffee, dessert, and art galleries, but I'm open to others! Investment is due in cash in an envelope, card, book, gift bag, or another discreet vessel within 5 minutes of meeting. During this meeting we'll chat casually, exchange stories, have fun, and just get to know each other. From there, I'll decide if I'm comfortable or interested in moving forward with you.
If I am interested in moving forward...
and we plan to extend with a private meeting immediately, please have the full investment ready in cash within an envelope, card, book, gift bag, or another discreet vessel to be given to me immediately once I've agreed to the extension
and we plan to meet for a private meeting on another day, please have the agreed upon deposit ready for me in cash within an envelope, card, book, gift bag, or another discreet vessel to be given to me immediately once I've agreed to the details
If I'm not interested in moving forward with you at that time, I will retain the public meeting investment and reject any additional investments. I'll gracefully excuse myself from the establishment and reach out to you with the options for moving forward. These options might include:
Attempting another public meeting. Maybe we just got off on the wrong foot?
Asking you to complete screening options 2 and/or 3. Maybe I'm just feeling a bit nervous with you and need more safety assurance?
Negotiating a new rate. This is mainly related to Kink and other requests that require rate negotiation. I always aim for fairness on both sides. I will never agree to a public meeting if I don't feel there's potential for a private meeting.
Nothing. We may just be incompatible and, in that case, I'm sorry it didn't work out. I wish you the best of luck in your search!
Yes, I am happy to come to you! I have a U.S. passport and I'd love to use it more often :)
Alternatively, you can visit me in Portland, Seattle, or Vancouver, B.C.! Please book in advance so that I can make sure to be available for you during your visit.
I prefer dates that include ample bonding time and fun activities. For new friends, I suggest a 3-6 hour date. Great first date activities range from small bites and charcuterie, coffee and patisserie, arcades, mini golf, and shorter shows for 3-4 hour dates, to galleries, museums, spa time, shopping, multi-course meals, and omakases for 6 hour dates.
For established lovers, I love an overnight date which offers plenty of time to linger. We can indulge in a mutually loved activity, a relaxed dinner, a late night soak, bed time... and morning bed time. 😉 Extended multi-day dates in new destinations hold a special place in my heart. I love being whisked away for unique adventures!
However... long-term monthly and yearly arrangements are my absolute favorite. The release, the reliability, the guarantee. Unlimited freedom to explore together. Dedication with discretion; Depth without drama; Daily doses of decadence, shared. It doesn't get any better than that!
Of course. I'm very selective about who I spend time with. I will only meet with people who are kind, respectful, tactful, and generous. I cater only to those who genuinely care about my health, comfort, and safety. I most enjoy spending time with provider, protector types and affectionate, attentive lovers.
I prefer repeating, regular encounters and will reject obvious one-off, "gotta catch 'em all" types, especially if you don't offer some kind of unique sparkle or magic such as an adventurous activity or a trip somewhere gorgeous (see: my novel experiences fetish).
If you don't meet or exceed these standards, we are not compatible.
Honorable Mentions:
- "hey" "hi" "u avail?" "menu?"
- Vulgarity and explicit verbiage during initial inquiry
- Functionally illiterate (not including English as a 2nd+ language!)
- Asking for unsafe activities as a stranger (I do not know you, sir!)
- "babe" "baby" "hun" "sweetie" during initial inquiry (again, idk you!)
- Mean to waitstaff and other entry-level employees; Bad tippers
- Those who expect free social time (that's not how this works!)
- Those who make promises they do not keep; Carrot danglers
Outcall: I am happy to visit your private residence, private rental, or 4-5 star hotel.
Incall: To host I choose 4-5 star hotels or private short-term rentals that are convenient to you and our planned activities. Reimbursement for any incall costs may apply.
I am extremely explorative and open to all kinds of dynamics and activities... However, asking for a "menu" is an immediate turn-off. Please have tact when engaging with me. I'm happy to discuss everything openly after we have established a relationship.
Yes, I am real. I don't pay for and maintain a professional website, social media accounts, and premium advertising accounts to scam people out of their hard earned money. I have a reputation (and a karmic balance) to uphold! Hope this helps! If not, I do offer paid video calls and public meetings.
I value long-term connections and mutual respect to the highest degree, so discretion is always paramount. Any personal information you give me is used for screening and safety purposes only. Privacy and no drama. I expect the same from you. I am open to signing an NDA.
My biggest strength as a companion is my ability to make our time together feel completely organic and genuine. That's because, to me, our relationship is organic and genuine.
I am natural, authentic, honest to a fault, and I love to joke around and have fun. I am very ambitious and have a full life and career outside of being Alex, making me a great social companion.
I'm far from perfect, but I'm the perfect match for the right gentleman. 😘
Scared of bees. Passenger Princess and rideshare user. Sometimes fashionably late. Hopeless romantic, endlessly daydreaming. Shopping Addict.
I absolutely love duos and couples!
If you would like me to curate a duo or trio experience for you, I would be happy to. I have some really fun friends based in Portland and Seattle, and I occasionally travel with them as well. Or, if you'd like to search for a new model, I'd be happy to do all of the research for us!
If you are looking to book a duo or trio including me and another model I don't yet know, please mention it in your initial introduction and have the other model contact me directly.
If you are a couple looking to book, please note that screening is required for both parties and it is 1.5x the normal investment. :)

Experiences
24 hours and longer - bespoke
Curated experiences tailored to you and I <3
Overnight (18 hours) - $3,500 USD
Daytime (12 hours) - $3,000 USD
Global minimum
Favorite Activities:
Galleries and museums
Tastings (cheese, charcuterie, tea, kombucha, fruits, kink... 😉)
Mini-golf, arcades, and anything that invokes child-like wonderment and fun
Casinos, games of chance (play responsibly!)
Dancing!
Shopping ;)
Spas and couples massages
Swimming and soaking
Hiking and camping
National parks, conservatories, nature reserves
Shows, events, exhibits
Dining
Amateur foodie and homegrown critic. Personal favorite for short dates!
6 hours - $2,500 USD
4 hours - $2,000 USD
North America minimum
Favorites Cuisines:
Seasonal dishes made with local ingredients
Steak and seafood
Japanese
Central and South American
Italian
French
Indian
Thai


A Snapshot in Time
3 hours - $1,800 USD
Touring minimum
2 hours - $1,500 USD
First date minimum
(3-6hrs recommended)
1 hour - $800 USD
For established friends only
Short Date Ideas:
A small bite
Soaking or swimming
Art or STEM exhibits/shows
Board games, cards games, video games
Music, short films, TV shows
Social Time/ Public Meeting/
Compatibility Check
Let's see if we're compatible before committing to a private meeting! Or, we can further develop our budding relationship with fun activities and social bonding time. Meet me for a small bite, an arcade, a performance, or whatever our hearts desire!
Current city and surrounding cities only.
1 social hour - $500 USD
Additional social hours - $300 USD

Any fantasy scenarios contained on this site and across the internet under Alex Astor are just that. I do not engage in any illegal acts. Compensation is for time and experience curating only.
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