Ideas | Alex Astor

One of the joys of longer dates is the freedom they offer for spontaneous connection and desire. It’s so refreshing not to feel confined by a tight schedule! Why not take our time to enjoy dinner together, spend our evening at a music show, or even leave for a romantic getaway? Not to mention... I have a passion (fetish!) for new experiences and new destinations. I would love to share the excitement with you!

Dining

A dinner date spans a delightful 4 hours (or 6 hours for an extended dining date!), giving us plenty of time to savor both our meal and each other. This type of date is the perfect choice for a gentleman seeking to spark a meaningful and lasting connection.

Lists are in no particular order

Dining Wishlist (Pacific Northwest)

Seattle:

Spinasse https://spinasse.com/

Il Nido https://ilnidoseattle.com/

Canlis https://canlis.com/

Di Fiora https://www.difiora.com/

Atoma https://www.atomaseattle.com/

Archipelago https://www.archipelagoseattle.com/

✅ Altura https://alturarestaurant.com/

Portland:

Le Pigeon https://www.lepigeon.com/

Canard https://www.canardrestaurant.com/

✅ Akadi https://www.akadipdx.com/

✅ Javelina https://javelinapdx.com/

Langbaan https://www.langbaanportland.com/

Meadowrue (can't seem to find a website for this one, it's at the Ritz)

Bellpine https://www.bellpinepdx.com/

Republica https://www.mexico-forward.com/

Kann https://kannrestaurant.com/

Departure https://www.departureportland.com/

Murata https://www.muratarestaurant.com/

Han Oak https://www.hanoakpdx.com/

Ringside Steakhouse https://www.ringsidesteakhouse.com/

Ken's Artisan https://kensartisan.com/

Papa Haydn https://www.papahaydn.com/

ParkStone Wood Kitchen + Taps https://www.parkstonerestaurants.com/

Higgins https://higginsportland.com/

Vancouver:

Okeya Kyujiro (⭐) https://okeya.ca/

Published on Main (⭐) https://publishedonmain.com/

St. Lawrence (⭐) https://www.stlawrencerestaurant.com/

Burdock & Co https://www.burdockandco.com/

Fiorino https://www.fiorinovancouver.com/

Cafe Medina https://www.medinacafe.com/

AnnaLena https://www.annalena.ca/

Barbara https://barbararestaurant.com/

iDen & Quanjude Beijing Duck House (⭐) https://www.quanjude1864.com/

Wildlight Kitchen & Bar https://wildlightrestaurant.ca/

Destination Dining (North America)

Blue Hill Farm, NYC (⭐❇️) https://www.bluehillfarm.com/

Canoe, Toronto https://www.canoerestaurant.com

Daisies, Chicago (❇️) https://www.daisieschicago.com/

One White Street, NYC (⭐❇️) https://www.onewhitestreetnyc.com/

Moon Rabbit, Washington DC https://www.moonrabbitdc.com/

Interstellar BBQ, Austin (⭐) https://www.theinterstellarbbq.com/

Los Felix, Miami (⭐❇️) https://www.losfelixmiami.com/

Union, Toronto https://union72.ca/

Mision 19, Tijuana https://mision19.com/

Oryx, Tijuana https://oryxrestaurante.com/en/

Le Comptoir at Bar Crenn, San Francisco (⭐❇️) https://www.barcrenn.com/

Quince, San Francisco (⭐⭐⭐❇️) https://www.quincerestaurant.com/

The Lazy Bear, San Francisco https://www.lazybearsf.com/

The French Laundry, Napa Valley (⭐⭐⭐❇️) https://www.thomaskeller.com/tfl

Osteria Mozza, :Los Angeles (⭐❇️) https://www.osteriamozza.com/

Gwen, Los Angeles (⭐) https://www.gwenla.com/

Destination Dining (Worldwide)

Le Petite Chef, multiple locations https://lepetitchef.com/

Bistro Des Lettres/Poemes, Paris https://bistrodeslettres.com/

Tuju, Sao Paolo (⭐⭐❇️) https://tuju.com.br/

Pujol, Mexico City (⭐⭐) https://pujol.com.mx/eng/

Tresind, Dubai (⭐⭐) https://tresind.com/dubai/

Zonda Cocina de Paisaje, Mendoza, Argentina (⭐❇️) https://www.lagarde.com.ar/en/experiences/zonda

Le Louis XV - Alain Ducasse, Monaco (⭐⭐⭐) https://www.montecarlosbm.com/en/restaurant-monaco/le-louis-xv-alain-ducasse-hotel-de-paris

Ekstedt at the Yard, London https://www.ekstedtattheyard.com/

Guy Savoy, Paris (⭐⭐⭐) https://www.guysavoy.com/en

Alleno, Paris (⭐⭐⭐) https://www.yannick-alleno.com/en/restaurants-reservation/restaurant-3-etoiles-paris.html

Ynyshir, Wales (⭐⭐⭐) https://www.ynyshir.co.uk/

Le Manoir aux Quat’Saisons, Oxfordshire (⭐⭐❇️) https://www.belmond.com/hotels/europe/uk/oxfordshire/belmond-le-manoir-aux-quat-saisons/dining

Travel

Exploring novel experiences and destinations is a great passion (fetish!) of mine. I’d be delighted to join you wherever you'd like, whether you need a well-deserved escape from a busy workday, or the perfect companion for a romantic getaway in the sun, I’m here to make every moment unforgettable. I especially cherish extended dates (overnights, 24hrs, multi-days) and prioritize them highly. Often described as charismatic and disarming, I’m natural, approachable, and easy to connect with.

Experiences we might enjoy together:

An overnight stay or weekend getaway in a comfy cozy hotel or resort
An escape from city life out on the edge of the earth or at the top of the world
Three unforgettable days in your favorite location
Romantic travels filled with relaxation, spa indulgence, pampering, performance art, shopping, music, candlelit dinners, and art gallery visits
Adventures like skiing, sailing, hiking, ATV rides, golfing, or even a thrilling safari!
Intelligent, flirtatious companionship to bring excitement and charm to your business trip
Foodie adventures from destination dining to mom-n-pop shop hunting to Michelin-starred restaurants

Travel Wishlist:

Japan, Kenya, Greece, Italy, France, South Africa, Australia, London, Amsterdam, Thailand, Switzerland, South Korea

Socials and Events

From humble beginnings, I am fairly new to the exclusive world of luxury and have yet to learn all of the etiquette and protocol... but I'm an eager student, a quick learner, and a highly adaptable woman.

Whether it’s a black-tie event, a night out dancing, a music show, a night at the the theatre, a sports game, a ballet, a fine arts showing, a high-fashion event, or any formal or casual gathering, I’m ready to join you.

Maybe you’re looking for someone fun and daring to trek through the mountains with, or a beautiful woman to share a round on the golf course—whatever the adventure, the world is ours to explore!

2026-2027 Bucket List

I’d love for you to join me in completing my newly updated 2026-2027 Bucket List— a mix of exciting new experiences and cherished favorites I can’t wait to share with you this year!

Bucket List, 2026-2027:

Receive a HUGE bouquet of flowers (don't forget the greenery!)
Eat a pizza in Italy
Get-it-on on a roof top or high balcony
Attend a large sports event
Golfing lessons with a lover
Go on a multi-day luxury cruise
Baby's 2nd omakase!
Sailing
Ski or snowboard (never tried!)
Safari in Kenya
Party hard-y in Seoul
Attend a ballet at the Sydney Opera House
Eat at a Michelin-starred restaurant (first time!)
Attend Le Petite Chef dinner + theatre (https://lepetitchef.com/)
Drink a wine from the year I was born or earlier
Drink a whiskey from the year I was born or earlier
✅ Drink a brandy from the year I was born or earlier
Camping or Glamping with a lover
Couples massage with a lover
Mud bath with a lover ;)
Escape to a warm beach during the winter months

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